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That never happens. Boobs are not a window into the soul.

I'll grant you that a character being nude may add something to our appreciation of them. But we don't need to see them as such. It's enough that the other characters see them. Our actually seing their body parts serves at best the visual aesthetics and at worst sexual stimulus.

"She has no illusions about being young or being in love. She is settling for the occasional comfort of a tumble with this man"

Wrong. She fills the typical jealous woman role. She says she has no illusions, but if that were true, why does she confront him about sleeping with a younger woman? If she's afraid Kingsley will break things off for a more permanent thing, she has no standing to complain.