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Whenever you're feeling so good that you just need to take yourself down a few pegs, browse google for results of the query "I'm no longer in love with my [husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance]. Universally, the advice is almost always "Well, it's not fair to you to stick it out in the relationship where you go amounts of time where you aren't completely and fully happy or head-over-heels for the person." There we have the dirty deed. "It's for their own good that you end it." And there we have the justification for said dirty deed.

Despite all indications to the contrary, this is a good sign. Even though we're using faulty logic to excuse ourselves from guilt, at least we recognize that guilt accompanies the action. Now all somebody has to do is take a hammer to the faulty logic, and we've got normal people again.

The sad truth of it is, if you go into a relationship thinking about your own happiness and expecting the other person to seem like your prince charming or whatever female equivalent all the time, you're walking into your first divorce.

That's why, back when churches were real – and belonging to one actually meant something – no lawyers or prostitutes were allowed to be buried within church gates on consecrated ground; lawyer= whore.

Now I understand you pluperfectly, and know why you think you are qualified to self-appoint and judge me.

If you are my accuser, you are an enemy of the saints and elect of God. Remember, Satan is the arch accuser, and a lawyer too. If you really want to be a Follower of The Way, and not a hollow thing called a Christian, you must quit being a lawyer. Consider me a cease and desist order from God Almighty. I am His advocate. It is He I represent. I am held by His retainer.

I'd rather have a sex offender for a neighbor than a lawyer. I wouldn't have to be polite to a sex offender.

There's an old saying: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans."

Speaking from experience, I'd encourage you to not to freak out if you're unmarried by 30. My wife and I didn't marry until near then, and I think we benefited from waiting as long as we did (not that we were *trying* to wait, it just worked out that way). We both knew who we were, what our flaws were, and what we wanted in life.

Remember that Jesus invited others to follow him who were unwilling to leave their families, wealth, or other attachments. The single guys were the ones who took the invitation.

As you say, there wouldn't have been anything wrong with Jesus getting married – it would have been perceived as normal in his society. And given the singular importance of Jesus, isn't it far more likely that, had he been married, we would know all about it? Why wouldn't we have heard about the deeds of Jesus's wife? Why wouldn't we have countless writings on the Son of the Son of Man? What reason would the Church have to hide such information?

While Jesus could have gotten married, I see no evidence to suggest that he did.