Brittany Murphy: To Remember
by Robert J. AvrechIn 1999, a few weeks before The Devil’s Arithmetic went into production, I met with stars Kirsten Dunst, Brittany Murphy, and Mimi Rogers in Dustin Hoffman’s Brentwood office. Dustin and Mimi had rescued my script from development hell—a seven year limbo—and were serving as Executive Producers. Mimi was doing double duty as actress and producer.
The Devil’s Arithmetic is a Holocaust time travel drama based on the best selling book by Jane Yolen.

Brittany Murphy, left, and Kirsten Dunst in The Devil’s Arithmetic, 1999.
The script called for authentic Jewish characters and settings.
To aid the two young actresses I brought Offspring #3 to the meeting, a knowledgeable and adorable eleven year old yeshiva student.
Offspring #3’s job was to coach the actresses in, well, being Jewish. Offspring #3 taught the actresses a few Jewish songs, and helped their Hebrew pronunciations.
I watched as Kirsten and Brittany soaked up Offspring #3’s essence.
For a screenwriter—and this is my favorite part of the process—observing actors prepare their roles was a joy and a revelation.
Brittany and Kirsten laughed and poked fun at each other as they haltingly learned the difficult Hebrew words to a Passover song. But within a short time, their Hebrew was letter perfect.
Mimi, Brittany and Mimi were thorough professionals.
During a break, Brittany Murphy took me aside and posed a series of questions about Rivkah, the character she was playing. Her questions went to the core of Rivkah, a pious and innocent young woman. I stumbled a bit because there were aspects of Rivkah I had not considered. Brittany Murphy, so young, so not-Jewish, was drilling to the foundation of the character. I was deeply impressed and humbled. After about fifteen minutes of discussion Brittany nodded, smiled brightly—her smile was always tinged with anxiety—and said:
“I got it.”
I did not know Brittany, I just knew that she was an astute and accomplished young actress—she made a huge splash in Clueless—and I felt that the co-starring role of Rivkah was safe in this young woman’s hands.
The ShowTime production was shot in Lithuania. A former Soviet army barracks was converted into a Nazi concentration camp. It was freezing cold, and the conditions were primitive. Brittany and Kirsten were shivering and sick during most of the shoot.
Both performances are just amazing and as I watched dailies I knew that something very special was happening. Kirsten perfectly embodies bafflement yet gradual acceptance as Hannah, a modern suburban mall rat who is abruptly transported back in time to a small Jewish village in Poland and then to Auschwitz.
And Brittany, as her cousin Rivkah, gives a powerhouse performance as an Orthodox Jewish girl, on the cusp of adulthood, whose comfortable world is shattered by the Nazi onslaught. It’s a deeply nuanced performance, that is, for me, the best, most unexpected, of Brittany’s short career.
At the premier screening of The Devil’s Arithmetic, the film received a standing ovation.
After the screening, I thanked all the actors for their work.
I said to Brittany: “You did stuff with my script that I never imagined.”
An understatement, to say the least.
Brittany smiled and said: “Aw, well, it was all there.”
But it wasn’t all there.
It was inside her, as it is inside all great actors.
A magic, a G-d-given gift that is beyond the reach of most of us. An ability to become someone else for brief snippets of time. The ability to transform reality into a hyper reality.
Last night, I learned that Brittany Murphy died at the age of 32.
I looked at my wife Karen and shook my head in despair.
An hour later we called Offspring #3, a newlywed living in New York, and told her the news.
“Oh nooo, that’s so sad,” she cried.
No doubt Offspring #3 recalled how warmly Kirsten and Brittany hugged and thanked her for the lively Jewish tutorial.
In the middle of the night, I slipped out of bed, went downstairs and slipped a DVD into the player.
I watched The Devil’s Arithmetic for a few minutes. And then I stopped because it was just too painful.
Brittany and I were not friends. We were, for a brief time, just movie co-workers.
But for me, the supremely talented Brittany Murphy lives on in the character of Rivkah, who at a crucial point in the script urges:
“To remember. To remember who we are…”
My deepest condolences to Brittany’s family and friends.






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A good remembrance.
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Thank you, Robert, for a generous and respectful remembrance of this young actress with whom I'm not too familiar. No doubt there are scores of media jackals scrounging to find some juicy and salacious scandal to link with her remembrance. Your anecdote is a mitzvah for her and her loved ones.
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Very very nice, Robert. The best way to determine the character of so many people in this business, is to study their work ethic. They may be lost in other areas, but the true person comes through when they're placed under pressure and asked to perform. Thank you for this insight into another yet another sad story from Hollywood.
What a wonderfully classy man you are, Robert. A touching and sweet tribute.
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you Robert for this wonderful tribute to a young woman who left us much too soon. My condolences to the family and friends of Brittany Murphy. May her soul rest in peace.
It's always very sad when someone dies at such a young age. RIP Brittany.
Thank you Robert, for this tasteful and touching tribute, to this young beautiful actress..It's so very sad to lose, yet another Hollywood star..I will always remember her in her breakout role in 'Clueless'…
There will be two things I'll remember about Brittany: Her southern drawl as she says, "But Uncle Hank…" as Luann from King of the Hill, and her sexiness from Sin City.
A talent gone too early.
Thank you so much, Robert for your tribute to this sweet actress. The honesty in your remarks brought tears to my eyes. I truely enjoyed her, since she was able to show sweetness, strength, and honesty in everything she did.
Very beautiful tribute. Unfortunately Robert the young, and talented – around this town – most times surround themselves with people who take advantage of their frailties as well as their talents. It is a shame. Wish there were more like you in this industry.
Lovely tribute. It's not often an actor is so generous.
This brought a tear to my eye.
Brings tears to my eyes. I feel like I saw and heard her: "After about fifteen minutes of discussion Brittany nodded, smiled brightly—her smile was always tinged with anxiety—and said:
'I got it.'"
As one having experienced a similar loss (…my wife died in mid-sentence at the age of 27), pieces like this seldom move me. But you tapped into something here, Robert. I cried buckets. Very cathartic. Thank you.
Robert,
My wife and I had the pleasure of meeting Miss Murphy (all too briefly) about 9 or 10 years ago. A freind of ours was appearing with her in "A View from the Bridge" in NYC. After the show we went back to see our friend, Jerry, and he introduced us to her (and most of the cast) backstage. She seemed very sweet and very humble. Jerry told us how impressed he was with her. Here she was, so young and appearing with Anthony LaPaglia and Laura Linney and it didn't seem to shake her a bit. She was very poised and professional (and very talented). We were very sad to hear of her passing.
Thank you for such a touching tribute.
Ms. Murphy, Dunst, and Rogers were equally favored to have had the honor of talking with you.
That's it in a nutshell. She wasn't considered to be among the most beautiful actresses, but something about her always touched me. I can't think of a single role she was in that I didn't like her character in. Something about her always shined through, no matter what the script had her say.
I was always very fond of her and find it heartbreaking that not only was she taken far too young, but that apparently her last years weren't spent enjoying her life and success. Too sad.
The Devil's Arithmetic is on my wish list…right now. Very sad, indeed.
Very nicely said.
This photo is striking and haunting.
Dittos.
Wonderful, remembrance! The first time our family saw Brittany was on the Torklesons. She was walking down a flight of stairs. She exuded comedic presence. There was more to her acting ability than just comedy. She also had a sense of vulnerability that played very well on screen. If you want to catch a not well known gem from her work check out “Ramen Girl” (instantly watch on Netflix) or “Spun.” She was a sort of an entertainer for every season. Fans of King of the Hill have “uncle Hank” ringing in their ears and some of us even put her “Faster Pussy Cat” on our workout playlist. Something always bothered me about her. She seemed to strain to control her physical movements; of course this helped her with her comedy. I wasn’t sure if this was genetic or from something self educed. Whatever, the case may be, she was a talent who’s professionally determination should be admired and whose loss should be mourned not only for her but all of those who entertained us and died tragically so young.
What a pleasure to read. So many of the "remembrances" on the 'net are vague speculations about drug use and comparisons to Lindsay Lohan. She was a talented young actress who died too young.
A wonderful remembrance, Mr. Avrech. I've seen many of her movies and have always found her to be sweetly entertaining. I first saw her in the movie "Freeway" playing a very troubled (to say the least) teenager and thought that she'd stolen the movie from the lead, Reese Witherspoon.
She brought an unusual twist to every role. Who knows how far she could've taken her craft? And now she's gone.
As it would happen, just saw Devil's Arithmetic just a couple of weeks ago. I wonderful film with meaning and heart, to rare these days. As I watched I reached for a pad and pen I keep nearby and made a note to look up more of Brittany's movies and add them to my Netflix list. Her performance was so moving.
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Thanks for the remembrance, so opposite from what the cable news stations are peddling. Brittany Murphy was a REAL actress. After reading this, I definitely intend to watch "The Devil's Arithmetic".
Everyone:
Thanks so much for your kind and generous comments.
I am very sorry for your loss. Thanks so much for the lovely comment.
Why is God spelled G-d? It makes it look like a swear word!
There is an ancient Jewish tradition not to write His name in full. Some of us who are observant Jews carry on this tradition in the English language. Sorry if it looks odd. Hopefully now you'll see it in a different light. Thanks so much for asking.
A touching remembrance, Mr. Avrech. Thank you.
I always liked Brittany Murphy — she was a talented actress, and had a fragility and vulnerability that was endearing.
It's very sad that this talented young lady was taken from this earth so young. I loved her in "Girl Interupted", "Freeway" and my personal favorite "Drop Dead Gorgeous". My heart goes out to her friends and family.
Yes, indeed. That was a lovely story. Thank you.
My wife and I always loved her in King of the Hill. She played Luanne perfectly.
I had forgotten about her in Sin City. Thanks for the reminder.
She made an impression on me in "Clueless" of all things. Though her character, Tai, was a rather unsophisticated East Coast girl, Murphy played her with an innocence and openness that I found endearing. Wish I'd seen her in other parts. Sorry her life and career were cut short.
thank you thank you I am so sick of the way we demoralise the dead, she is gone……………… let her rest in peace, I am not a computer blog person so I wish someone would start a blog to let her rest in peace no more digging and demeaning the wonderful spirit that she was. Truly a gem missing from the crown jewels. so long our brittany so long
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Another stupid drug addict immortalized by Hollywood.
turns out, ironically, that she was Jewish, her mother's mother was Jewish, which under Jewish law makes her as Jewish as the chief rabbi of Israel, even if she was raised in another faith.
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