Ron Silver R.I.P.: An Appreciation
by Lionel ChetwyndIn the entertainment industry, friendships are a sometime thing: they bloom with each new project and too often, disappear in the breeze of first reviews. But when Ron Silver entered your life it was for keeps; his love of life, his energy, his exuberant generosity, and his extraordinary breadth of mind made him someone whom you never wished to let go.
We first met many years ago in a Chinese restaurant whose name was known only to him, deep in the regions of downtown Manhattan. He ordered off-menu in what was clearly imperfect Cantonese, but done with such conviction and commitment the waiter succumbed and willed himself to understand Ron’s every word (we later discovered he was a new hire from Taiwan who spoke only Mandarin but Ron was irresistible in any language) In those early days our politics were antipodal (Ron would want that word in his appreciation and would not want its use marred by an in-text definition) He still burned with the revolutionary zeal of the 60s, a fever that had drawn him to travel across the world in pursuit of an original ambition to become a diplomat — only to discover his kismet lay elsewhere (Kismet? He liked this kind of talk). But even as an actor, the calling of public service was always close at hand. It was perfectly logical that he became President of Actor’s Equity and equally predictable that, in that job, he would become the strong heroic voice of much needed change in the way that artists and management related and also lead Equity into the new era of collective bargaining and job definition – perhaps the first union leader to really understand what the 21st century would mean. Almost obsessed with the millennium it made sense that his e-mail address would be NYC2K. I looked forward to the Davos Conference each year, not for the pompous speeches of the world leaders but for Ron’s amusing pin-pricking of their hot-air balloons.
And then came 9/11. Ron had always been a “radical centrist” – someone who clung to the belief that the radical solutions could be found by driving the issues to a consensus that satisfied no one yet benefited all. By the early hours of 9/12 he concluded that despite all the goodwill in the world there were forces loose with whom there could never be compromise….that the human imperfections which have given us the horrors of World War II were again alive and well in other garments. It was never a matter of party or political allegiance. It was only about love of country – indeed of western civilization, whose classics and aspirations he knew so well. Having grasped this truth, he followed its logic with uncommon courage leading to the stage of the Republican convention, a place where the people of our profession rarely wish to be seen. But he was never one to shirk from the battle; he was the good soldier always ready to shoulder his share of the burden no matter how onerous. He was a truth-seeker.
I have yet to address the major portion of his greatness: his extraordinary gift as an actor. In this role, above all, was where we saw Ron the truth seeker. Ron and I had long hoped to work together but problems of timing and scheduling had made that a very elusive dream. But finally, in the early 90s, there came the perfect storm, and we were able to collaborate on Kissinger and Nixon. In a long and durable career I have had the good fortune to work with some of the greatest talents of my day; but never have I encountered an actor as committed to his role as Ron was to Kissinger. He did not imitate; on the contrary, as all good actors do, he found his own central truth about the man he was playing and internalized it. But then in some strange alchemy that happens so very rarely, that internalization disappeared, the mantle of Henry Kissinger fell across the actor’s shoulders, and he became the man. He did not portray him; he channeled him. It was as powerful an illusion as any magic I had ever seen. We would gather on the set to watch him go mano-a-mano with Beau Bridges, see how every inflection, every gesture was part of a perfect whole. In his work as an actor, he infused each moment and line with the DNA of the whole creature. There would be no false notes, no inconsistencies. His work was seamless. True art.
But watch any Ron Silver film and you will see the mark of that genius is not limited to playing Kissinger. You will see it in every performance to which he ever lent his craft. He was as great as any of his day and much more.
I will miss him dreadfully. I will miss his cleverness, his biting sarcasm, his warmth and friendly concern, I will miss his love, I will miss the excitement of waiting for the revelation of his next performance. And all Hollywood is impoverished by the passing of Ron Silver, a man of great courage, clear vision, a true artist who is a model for all who seek to balance career with integrity and plain human decency.
Death enjoyed a rich harvest Saturday night; I shall remember this truly great man. Ron Silver, Alla v’shalom.





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Whatever his politics, Ron Silver was an extraordinarily gifted actor. I watch The West Wing for two hours every single morning–ya, ya, I know–and when Ron is on the screen, the quality of the scene improves perceptibly. He was Bruno and part of a cast of gifted actors. Among his peers, he was at the head of the class.
I will always be a fan of Ron Silver. (I am glad he stood up to Hollywood.) One night he was on a talk show and he
mentioned since he liked some of the republican views, that Hollywood would punish him. He was a very gifted actor and one I will miss.
Miss him? Where is he?
I was hoping you'd have this tribute. Our cause is a bit dimmer today with his passing. My favorite movie with him was The Arrival. Good guy, wish I would have known him.
Ron nodded to me one evening in a warehouse, just east of downtown L.A. He was filming a CBS show, I was waiting for the long day to be over so I could do a promo shoot and then get home myself. It was a Friday and the cast and crew had a Xmas party and the shooting dragged well into the night..
To this day, 20 plus years later, I can still see his genuine & warm smile as he warmly nodded to me asI was just trying to stay out of the way. I've worked with many people in TV and film and Ron Silver was one of the nicest I'd ever met.
Thank you for sharing your story, and I'm sorry for your loss. He was a true talent.
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Josh Paul
Thank you for your tribute to Ron, and for sharing his exhuberance and intensity. He demonstrated true courage in taking a stand which put him at odds with many of his erstwhile friends, and for which he paid a personal cost. He demonstrated what it really means to speak "truth to power."
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Aside from all the kudos and soaring elegies, he died as a man, fighting to the end, quiet in his battle, smiling.
And to think of all the ink wasted on the ones from Hollywood who click off from too many pills, or choking on themselves. That they will be compared is the unfairest cut of all. That they give them posthumous awards borders on the absurd, that it was probably in recognition of courageous depiction of sodomy al fresco is just painful.
Thank you GOD for reminding us of the good ones who reside in your arms.
Truly a tragic loss. Mr. Silver was one of those actors who, even though he lacked the leading man "look," transcended the character actor category to become a true star in his own right. He did everything from drama to comedy impeccably. Though I put politics aside when dealing with artists – I have to to survive – I must admit that I was totally jazzed when he became a hawk after 09/11. Godspeed, Ron.
I didn't know he was sick.
This is horrendous. What a loss.
He was awesome in Timecop. Check it out sometime. Very sad to hear of his passing…
I always liked him – and at the back of my mind always wondered why a talent like his wasn't rewarded with more roles. But I'm certain he was punished for having the courage of his political convictions. I do not see it as a coincidence that the actor (Penn) who praises a dictator gets an Oscar this year – while the actor (Silver) who narrates a DVD ("Broken Promises") opposing dictators doesn't even get a part.
God bless you, Mr. Silver. You were an artist in the truest sense of the word.
Not-so-subtle and rather nasty swipe at Heath Ledger there. Very sorry to hear of Silver's death, but Ledger was a much bigger star and died in a scandalous way. That's always going to get more press. And I think he deserved the Oscar for Dark Knight. I've enjoyed much of Silver's work over the years, but haven't seen him to anything to rival the intensity of Ledger's Joker.
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God, Lionel, what wonderful writing.
I've never met either of you, yet I now know the heart of both of you. Thank you so very much.
Mr . Silver strikes me as one who would not dramatize his suffering, like a lot of people do. He just would keep on going as long as he could. So rare nowadays, where hangnails are points of major news stories.
Ron, go get a drink with Ronnie and Chuck. We'll take over here. God Bless.
The World is less for his loss. I have always admired his honesty and integrity in life as in his art. His portrayals were always riviting. I find those qualities shone thru the charectors he was portraying. His honesty and integrity were at the heart of his decisions after 9/11. The fact that he could look at the world as it exists and change his opinion defense policy. That to me is classic Ron Silver, not because he came to our side but because he was honest with himself. He loved this country and if a change of tactics or policies was what was needed then it would have been dishonest not to. I do not think the Ron Silver I have come to admire could have done anything else.
We need more honest people like Ron, and now we have one less.
Ron Silver loved his family,craft, and country-it was as simple as that.
He died of esophageal cancer yesterday.
Ron was a great actor and I've always admired former liberals who've seen the error of their ways and had the intellectual fortitude to admit it, correct it and seek the truth as the author so eloquently put it.
God rest his soul.
Ron Silver was a man who commanded respect. When he was acting, he made me lean a little closer to the screen and pay attention to what he was doing. When he spoke or wrote what was on his mind, I listened or read a little more attentively.
Rest in peace, sir.
Like all here I mourn the passing of a great American and gifted artist. I remember him recalling that during the Clinton administration he saw an Air Force flyby and commented that "hey, those are our planes now" meaning those of a Democrat administration. He was laughing about it as he recalled the memory. His conversion to a more right of center point of view was refreshing but regardless of politics, he was an American, and a damn good one. We'll all miss you, Godspeed.
What a brilliant……but under apprectated actor and activisit…………he will be missed by many who value talent and honesty
The world got a little less wonderful did it not? God speed Mr. Silver. You were the best of us.
Rest in peace, Mr. Silver. You will be missed.
I haven't seen nearly as many Ron Silver movies as I should have. I enjoyed him in The Arrival and I remember my friend and I cracking up when we read about Ben Stiller's TV pilot "Heat Vision and Jack" which featured Mr. Silver playing the villain… as himself!
In the book Live From New York, Dana Carvey described himself as a "radical moderate" which I liked. Silver's "radical centrist" is one I might have to use one day.
Thank you for posting this beautiful tribute.
Great post. Roger Simon also posted a great one on Pajamas Media.
Ron Silver was a great actor, he was wonderful in every role, even in Veronica's Closet.
His speech at the '04 convention was the highlight for me. He was inspiring in his activism in supporting our War on Terror when most of Hollywood was trashing it.
Rest in Peace, Mr. Silver. You will be missed.
Mr. Chetwynd:
Good to see you posting here. I wish the occasion was happier.
Mr. Silver exuded decency. Somehow, I could just tell that he was a good person, without ever having met him. Everything I've read about him since his passing confirms that my impression was right.
Watching him at the Republican convention, where he risked being scorned by his peers and maybe losing job opportunities to do what he believed was best for the country he loved, is something I'll never forget.
I first saw him in Silent Rage. Great actor and a good man. He will be missed. Thanks for the words of appreciation for Ron Silver.
I had just read the announcement of Ron Silver's passing when the pilot for the series "Kings" came on. I heard a familiar gravelly voice trying to convince the conniving king that wars should be fought only for the right reasons. It was Ron Silver in one of his last parts. It made me doubly sad.
Ron Silver was one of those actors who was so good at his craft that I could separate his politics from his acting. He was a doctrinaire liberal, and he argued his case well. After September 11, he saw the folly of attempting to reason with terrorists out to destroy everything we stand for. He altered his political views, and as before, argued his case well. I've already seen a few grudging eulogies from the left, including saying he was a great actor whose vision was clouded by his support for Israel. What a way to say goodbye to a great actor and a fine man. I see it differently. He moved from being a liberal Democrat to being a moderate Republican with very conservative national security ideas. But they missed the most important part. He was always a patriot. And a great actor.
A fine actor and ,more importantly, a fine man, who spoke his mind irrespective of the consequences to himself. Since it's St. Patrick's day I thought I'd post an old Irish blessing my dear Grandmother was fond of:
May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.
Godspeed, Mr. Silver
Well I am going to Watch Garbo Talks on DVD tonight, and I am going to pour myself a single malt and drink a toast to his memory.
Thank you truly for these fine words.
Many folks in the entertainment field, and not, think Ron Silver changed when he supported the Republican ticket, and Bush in particular, after 9/11. He didn't change. He continued his limitless passion as an American in the best way he saw fit. What changed was his party. As Reagan joked after his switch, 'I didn't leave the party, they left me." How true that was with Ron Silver. When we were attacked, so boldly and so destructively and so effectively, well, he knew from that day on, and probably with more than a hint in earlier days, that his party, the party of JFK, the party that would have regarded the 9/11 attacks on our soil as an unequivocal act of war, and not, as so many celebrity friends of his suggested, merely a case for the International Criminal Court, had slipped into a shell of its former self where firmness was replaced with apologies and actions had no consequences. Ron didn't change his politics. He just realized that the horse he had backed for so long had wobbly legs and a weak stomach.
Rest in Peace, Ron. You will be missed but not forgotten. Your work lives on.
Not so much a reply to maatkare but to the general idea of posthumous awards and the relative status of Ron Silver vs. Heath Ledger. First, nothing wrong with an award given after someone's death. If the guy rated an award for his work, so be it. Heath Ledger was a fine actor; apparently he got mixed up in something problematic and it killed him. Who knows what Ledger might have become if he'd been around as long as Silver. But to compare the two, or suggest that Ledger was greater in stature, is comparing apples and oranges. Silver had a very long and distinguished career in the movie business and was involved with so many aspects of the business that he could be considered one the "quiet giants" of showbiz. He's keeping good company with guys like Jack Klugman and Andy Griffith. In generations to come, Silver's work will endure. Ledger did not have the time to become more than a bright flash in the pan, which is tragic. In fact, when I heard of Ledger's death, my feeling was that it sucked we had lost yet another promising actor. Silver's departure makes it yet another.
Ron Silver was someone whose work I always admired. I had no idea of his politics until yesterday, but I always felt there was a depth and character to the man than came through. Learning of his deeply held beliefs and his courage to go against the grain, then, did not surprise me.
Mr. Semel,
I'll be joining you in that toast tonight. First fell in-love with Ron Silver in Garbo Talks. Can't say how many times I've watched that film and each screening as fresh and beautiful as the first. Nobody might have played Ann Bancroft's son as Silver in that film. Always the mensch the sweetness coming through. I'll miss his work, intelligence and personal honesty as perhaps no other actor I've known.
Stuart Weiss
I agree, Stuart…the man was a mensch. A force of nature. A gifted soul who touched so many lives along the way. My condolences to his family and friends. My thanks to Mr. Chetwynd for his fine tribute.
I believe it was the late Kim Stanley who once said, "Actors are vessels from God"
Ron Silver was truly such a man.
May he forever rest in peace.
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