Same Church Lady, Different Religion
by Doug TenNapelIf you thought Dana Carvey’s Church Lady died with the 90s she’s back – complete with a shrill intolerance past the point of being funny. Sean Penn contorts his muzzle to the side of his face and asks, “What made you support the definition of marriage being between a man and a woman? Was it…mmm, HATRED?!”
Great, now the blue-haired old lady has been replaced by a finger-wagging liberal industry star using the spotlight to shove religion down the next generation’s throat. There’s no self reflection, only the kind of self-righteous condemnation that comes from a rock solid adherence to a dogma.
It’s the same secular humanist dogma the Church Lady swallowed in her youth. She even remembers the sacred text from her book of John Dewey 22:6: “Train up a lefty in the way he should go; and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Keep looking down your nose at my pro-life stand, hold your crazy “End Is Near” picket signs warning of apocalyptic environmental disaster, and always-always-always read my mind and know my motives boil down to hateful, bigoted, superstitious, incurious, uncreative, unenlightened or any other bigoted stereotype you shove down my throat from your Sunday School throne.
Same Church Lady, different religion. Only this time I don’t believe in your hell, your Jesus or your doomsday scenarios designed to manipulate a fuller offering plate from your sucker congregation.
Please reserve the schtick for the choir because all you’re getting from me is laughter.





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BAM! as Emeril would say.
Perhaps we can give Penn Celebutard of the Year or something.
Penn isn't actually interested in changing people's minds about Gay Marriage. He's probably convinced himself that he is, but in reality it's all about strutting in front of his peers and getting praised because he said the right thing. It's about a step above a dog show.
Finger wagging means so much coming from one that dines with totalitarian dictators that jail, torture and kill people for expressing a different opinion.
What a clown!
I'm just thankful Mr. Penn addressed 'The Academy' as "you commie, homo-loving sons of guns." That finally explains Al Gore's award a couple years back. . . .
In addition, chiding protestors for their "hatred" means so much more when the majority of (violent and disruptive) protesting has been carried out by those who lost a democratic vote over Prop. 8.
Whould someone please tell Mr. Penn that we do not appreciate being preached to by a Celebutard whose IQ is smaller that his shoe size. Every time he opens his mouth he shows his desire to be something that he will never be…important!
No fair! You're using common sense and logic. How's that fair in a fight with a liberal?
Since most people aren't spending their time and money on his movies, Sean Penn has no choice but to behave like his obnoxious, self-righteous self. If he's the left's best mouthpiece on these issues, I'm hardly worried.
http://the100mostannoyingthings.blogspot.com/
So according to Penn, gay rights advocates naturally gravitate to communism advocates… What?
To the left, every viewpoint on every subject revolves around hatred. They spend so much time hating anyone who doesn’t think the exact same way as the left wing that hatred is now their favorite emotion.
They are exactly what they profess to hate: bigoted, small minded, and intolerant, thriving on a culture of fear and intimidation.
I think Sean Penn damaged his brain during the filming of fast-times at Ridgemont High. He has never been the same since…Yahhh dude.
One of my favorite Penn-Idiot moments was when he had his Glock stolen out of his favorite Buick Grand-National, (One of the all time greatest Mega-Carbon-Footprint-mobiles).
He has long championed gun control and taking away firearms from the huddled masses which makes sense when one looks at who he calls friends; Hugo Chavez Raul & Fidel Castro…
I can hardly wait for his next single-word great film project that nobody will watch: “Burr – The story of America’s greatest mis-understood hero.”
I am pretty sure People magazine and the New York Times would run their review along the lines of: “Hollywood powerhouse Sean Penn stars in an epic saga about the life and untimely death of Aaron Burr, America’s greatest revolutionary war hero!
A man who paid the ultimate price trying to prevent the horrific bloodbath caused by that baby-killing warhawk, George Washington and his unruly band of white euro-centric thugs”.
Harvey Milk was a great American and patriot, and Penn's performance was spot on.
Ed McMahon: It's time for a visit with the great Carnac the magnificent
Johnny Carson: Thank you Ed, now lets get on with the answer.
The answer is……….. Sean Penn's A**.
Ed: and what's the question Johnny?
Johnny: Well Ed the question is………"What Sean Penn's head needs to come out of?"
"Above?"
I'm not sure whether I care whether you hate someone when you vote to have the state deny equal legal rights to a group of people. It's still wrong and offensive. Hate is a convenient shorthand, I suppose.
Personally, I would like to resolve the whole mess by separating marriage and state. Civil unions for all! Let churches define marriage as they like.
"Finger wagging means so much coming from one that dines with totalitarian dictators that jail, torture and kill people for expressing a different opinion."
Expressing a different opinion, being a homosexual, whatever floats Chavez's boat.
Oh no, Sean Penn promoting tolerance and acceptance of others! He was right, though. Our grandchildren will view our mistreatment of homosexuals the way I look at my grandparents's generation's mistreatment of African Americans. I cannot imagine how people could sit aside and allow segregation to occur, and my children and grandchildren will wonder why homosexuals were not granted equal rights. It's all about equality, people. Oh, and none of this "protect marriage" bull. If protecting marriage is that important, why is divorce legal? Divorce goes directly against the sacred institute of marriage and breaks apart the traditional family. But it's alright if we deny a minority's right to marriage, but we certainly can't deny the majority's right to divorce. Hyprocracy, much?
Oh, and Penn gave the best performance of the year.
This is a stretch – even for you.
Who is Sean Penn?
Not as big of a stretch as comparing the treatment of blacks with the treatment of gays. Millions of blacks were kidnapped from Africa and enslaved in the U.S. and in other countries. How many gay people have ever been enslaved in the U.S.?
And we care about what this left-wing nut thinks because….????????
Hey Sean,
When Galveston went under water we waited for you to come down for a photo op. But we then realized that you wouldn't come down to help people in Bush's home state. You're nothing but a Commie loving Quisling!
Would anyone in Hollywood do a good deed and help the Shriners Burn hospital in Galveston. This facility is in danger of closing because of hurricane IKE, how about a little charity for these fine people.
Fictitious, tedious moral scold resembles tedious scold with fictitious morals. I like it.
Hey that's a grave insult. How could you ever compare nuts to Sean Penn. Nuts are very tasty and are a great source of nutrition. What have they ever done to you.
(I better stop. The sarcasm is getting way too thick here.)
BEST. BLOG. EVER.
Let the church say…"Amen".
Sean Penn doesn't add up in my head. I think he's talented, but he's also like the class bully ne'er-do-well who got a whole lotta lucky breaks and is still trying to prove his legitamacy. A real restless soul.
You're right…upon further reflection it is a step below
What was it about Harvey Milk's life that made him a Patriot, other than being gay and a politician?
You're absolutey right! How can we deny a minority's right to marriage?! Those of us who want two, three… ten wives? Those of us who want to marry 10-year-old boys? Those of us who want to marry our chimpanzees? How dare they deprive us this right!
I think a better question to ask of future generations is how we ever allowed women the convenience of slaughtering viable third trimester babies in the womb by sucking their brains out, crushing their skulls, pulling them out and tossing them in the trash.
Hey, Cheese –
Sean Penn may be "tasty and a great source of nutrition" as well. Protein, anyway. I guess we could ask the members of the Academy…
Cheesy Potatoes….point well taken! My apologies to all the nuts out there!
I'm not compairing the plight of African Americans to homosexuals. Obviously African Americans have suffered far greater. My point is that future generations will view us as intolerant because of our mistreatment of gay rights the way my generation looks to my grandparents' mistreatments of African Americans with issues like segregation. There is no justification for it, and history will frown upon it like it does with segregation. But they're two very different examples that I just believe history will treat the same.
I understand what you're saying about honoring the people's voice with Prop 8, and can't help but agree. But that doesn't mean that people can't speak out against it. It's still a violation of human rights, and let's not forget that just 50 years ago, a huge majority opposed recognizing interracial marriage. Eventually gay marriage will be legalized
Yeah, it's not polite to fight someone who's unarmed.
Hear Hear!
I think the main issue here is semantics. Call it "domestic partnership", and open it to all people who live together (i.e, roommates who've shared an apartment for the last 10 years, your spinster aunts who live together, etc) and I think it would pass. People object to calling it "marriage", as marriage is a union created by God.
"In the Declaration of Independence it is written: ‘All men are created equal and they are endowed with certain inalienable rights.’
“For…all the bigots out there: That’s what America is. No matter how hard you try, you cannot erase those words from the Declaration of Independence.
“That’s what America is. Love it or leave it.”
Harvey Milk
If you can't see the patriotism in those words, then you're not bright enough to be a member of a liberal democracy.
That's actually an interesting idea. The government tends to dilute anything it gets involved in, the idea of marriage appears to have suffered the same fate in the hands of government. Giving it back to churches might be good for marriage. I wonder if anyone (other country) has tried this or studied this?
Anybody is welcome to "speak out" against Prop. 8…that's what you're doing now, in essence. But the protests in California have crossed a line. As I see it, all you're arguing for here is societal evolution. I agree with you that will happen. Where we disagree, I think, is regarding the desirability of it. As to the comparison between racial equality and preferential treatment based upon sexual orientation, here's the difference:
Homosexuals have equal rights now. A homosexual man can marry any woman he wants, as long as she'll have him. They regard that as a trivial argument, but that's exactly the same civil right that I have. What they want is something different. They want to force their own sexuality down my throat, in a manner of speaking (sorry for the unappealingly graphic word play, but it emphasizes the point), and make me accept moral equivalency where I don't believe it exists.
It's amazing how far some people will go to reinvent virtually anything to be accepted by those unlike themselves. I pride myself on being me and not forcing others to accept me or include me in their world.
Calling it a violation of human rights assumes that it's a right. That's just one opinion and not everyone accepts it. In fact, judging on the voters reaction, most people disagree.
Also, keep in mind, that equating it with interracial marriage is merely the analogy preferred by one side. The other side rejects that analogy and argues that the logic of that analogy is flawed.
This is too good to be true. According to Variety, Penn is in talks to star in the Valerie Plame movie, and quite possibly will play Joseph Wilson.
Please let this be true. If only to watch the heads explode in here.
Also, I know intellectual consistency isn't your forte, but can you both deride Penn's 'looking down his nose' at your political opinions while looking down your own nose at his? Or is it bold and principled when you do it, and comical and vain when he does?
YES!! What does marriage have to do with the State anyways!
The problem is that most places would be all right recognizing civil unions for gays. I certainly don't have a problem with it, but I do have a problem with it when someone tells me that's a marriage. The government does not a marriage make. Marriages are sacred and viewed as such by the world's religions, and when government redefines marriage arbitrarily it makes a law that interferes with freedom of religion for lots of folks.
Let gays have civil unions as contracted by the government and the other legal rights the government gives to married couples, but if gays wish to be married, let them find a religion that will carry out that sacrament as it pertains to that faith. That is the best compromise I can come up with.
But if gays are seekng acceptance of their behavior through this then they need to understand that tolerance != acceptance.
I'll produce it, if anyone here is willing to direct.
And a good thing you did, too. One of my mom's Lhasa Apso's won best in breed at Westminster this month, and that little dust mop of a dog is WAY cooler than Penn.
It's comical when we both do it. But nobody is laughing when he does it.
Thank you for resorting to personal degredation over a basic question.
I may not be the brightest bulb in the pack, but as I have chosen not to pay money to view the film, not because of the subject matter but because of Mr. Penn, I was interested enough to ask why you considered Mr. Milk a patriot. BTW It does take more than one statement to make a patriot. I would think that his activism for Human Rights, would have been a better choice as an answer.
So, if I am not bright enough to be a member of a liberal democracy because I ask why, so be it.
Good post.
The intolerance of the Left for any other point of view really is beginning to become apparent.
Liberal Democracy??? Gee, all this time I thought we were a Constitutional REPUBLIC–you know rule of law and all of that. Those inalienable rights are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness (If I remember correctly. ) It doesn't necessarily mean the redefinition of marriage. Leave marriage alone. Just change the tax codes. There are thousands of pages in the tax codes. It's got to be in there somewhere. And since we're down to loving it and/or leaving America, my ancestors were here FIRST! Take your liberal democracy fascism garbage and go elsewhere. I understand Sweden is nice this time of year. What about France?
Bryan,
Let's be real: you are trying to push the "civil rights = gay rights" myth.
That's ironic since 70 percent of Black voters voted FOR Prop. 8. Clearly, the argument isn't flying among my community. Columnist Tara Wall explains:
"Black civil and religious leaders – rightfully – have expressed outrage at the gay community's co-opting "civil rights" to include gay sex. Blacks were stoned, hung, and dragged for their constitutional right to "sit at the table." Whites – gay or not – already had a seat at that table. There is no comparison. Activists argue that, like skin color, gays don't choose their lifestyle. Even if, for the sake of argument, that were so, homosexuals are still "choosing" to get married. To compare voters denying what is not a right to blacks dying for what is – is beyond the pale."
Read the rest of the Wall's column here:
http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2008/nov/18/a...
Bottom line, widespread Black support of gay marriage is the stuff of fantasy not reality.
Old Tom,
You've touched on another reason why gay marriage is unpopular among Black voters. To get their way, gay marriage activists try to use the courts to steal the voting rights of their opponents, including Black people.
Is it me or are the gay activists' tactics similar to the KKK's during the Jim Crow days?
Go to the Gay Pride parades in San Francisco. You will definitely see alot of whips and chains. Perhaps that what has confused them into thinking they are the same as slaves?
There are even gay celebrities like Elton John who don't think "gay marriage" is a worthy goal:
"I don't want to be married. I'm very happy with a civil partnership. If gay people want to get married, or get together, they should have a civil partnership," said [Elton] John. "The word marriage, I think, puts a lot of people off. You get the same equal rights that we do when we have a civil partnership. Heterosexual people get married. We can have civil partnerships."
http://www.protectmarriage.com/article/elton-john...
Are you serious? Ya, can't understand why gay people don't just marry someone of the opposite sex. Maybe marriage to you is all about tax breaks or benefits, but I view marriage as an official representation of the bond of love between two people. Call me crazy.
I don't know your situation, but if you're a white/heterosexual/male (or any combination) you haven't suffered much because of "who you are." So it's pretty easy for you to not care if you're accepted. For other people it's a big deal.
But like I said, I don't know who you are, so I could be wrong. I don't know you, and I don't pretend to.
I already said that nothing that homosexuals have suffered can compare to the plight of African Americans. My point is that I look back at my grandparents generation and wonder how they could allow segregation and blatant racism to occur. My children and grandchildren will look back and wonder why homosexuals were denied certain rights. It's not "the" civil rights movement, but it's "a" civil rights movement. "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere" (Martin Luther King, fyi).
Ewww. A nice, mature response, Drie. If you don't think marriage is part of the "pursuit of happiness," I feel sorry for your spouse.
It's just you, Fred.
Yes, I'm serious. They have the same civil right that you and I have. What they are demanding is something else. Looked at from the flip side, you can't legally marry a man and neither can I. Therefore, we have equal rights under the law. It only becomes unequal when I'm allowed to do something that you are not permitted to do. Your preference for doing it is irrelevant as a point of law. Why can't you understand that as a simple legal argument?
You and I have the right to marry someone we love. They don't. Seems pretty simple to me. And it would still be equal law. We could both suddenly marry individuals of the same gender.
It just seems to me what's the big deal. Marry who you want, let homosexuals marry who they want. What's so bad about that. It's about love and acceptance of all lifestyles, as long as they don't negatively affect others.
Wow indeed. Comparing civil rights activism to a terrorist group just crosses the line of human decency.
How many people have been lynched for their opposition of gay marriage? None.
How many anti-gay cults have been firebombed? None.
How many anti-gay activists have been murdered like those three men in Mississippi in 1964? None.
My pure bred Chinese Crested could beat up Sean Penn. And Chinese Cresteds are the sissies of the dog world.
I love church ladies. They are some of the best people around and they get so crapped on in our culture. Calling Sean Penn a church lady is an insult to church ladies. (but I get your point and it's a good one)
Yeah, and mentioning that this is the third time that the citizens of california voted to keep marriage between men and women should be mentioned either. Or that the only reason that prop 8 happened was because the unelected courts tried overturn the will of the people
So which of King Solomon's nearly 700 wives was the most "sacred"?
I'm actually not opposed to gay marriage per se, I'm just opposed to the specious legal argument surrounding it. They need to overturn Proposition 8 by changing public opinion about it, not by arrogantly demanding a "right" to which they are not currently entitled by law.
During the beginning of the Civil Rights movement, the "will of the people" was to keep blacks and whites separate. That didn't stop Martin Luther King, Rosa Parks, and other heroic figures from standing up to injustice when it was the unpopular thing to do. On an incredibly smaller scale, that's what is occuring now. The courts must recognize Prop 8, but that shouldn't stop people from speaking out against the inequality because, as MLK said, "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." It's just a step towards acceptance and a celebration of diversity.
I can't just marry who I want! I can't marry someone while I'm married already. I can't marry my children, my cousin or any other close relative. I can't marry someone under the age of consent. Would you do away with those restrictions as well?
I notice Mr. Milk couldn't be bother to quote the document without editing it. Mayhaps Mr Milk should have read it as it was written.
"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness."
It seems to me like Mr Milk tried to erase some of those words, mainly "BY THEIR CREATOR" from the Declaration of Independence. Seems to me like he was projecting.
okay, this made me lol.
Sean was doing fine until he used the platfform at the Oscars to spew his rhetoric. He should have just thanked "The Academy" and shut the eff up and got out of there. I am decidedly no fan of Sean Penn. I have always thought Jeff Spicoli had more sense than he does.
Well let's say I'm one of two things:
1. A white heterosexual male who is tired of everyone bitching
or
2. A 4'2" blonde haired, black Philappino, Leprechaun with one brown eye and one blue eye – with a learning disability and one leg shorter than the other.
It shouldn't matter except to people who try to make excuses for their own shortcomings.
I mean my god – maybe people have issues with equality because people resist opening themselves up to someone who MORE THAN LIKELY will come up with some reason to claim they were harrassed or not appreciated enough (due to their hardships) by a "white/heterosexual/male (or any combination)"
It's getting tiring folks – seriously.
I'm not opposed to anything other than consent, simply because minors aren't mature enough to make decisions like that for themselves (mentally speaking, with brain development). But I honestly have never seen anything wrong with polygamy.
They are similar Fred2, but if you mention that then they'll call you a homophobe and talk about how you're evil, hateful, bigotted or some such.
**I'll concede one point to you, Bryan. It is hard to defend the "sanctity of marriage" as the divorce rate soars above 50%. **
Really? Does that mean that the "sanctity of life" comes into question if the murder rate rises above X percentage? Do our lives have a lesser value because some choose to abuse lives–their own or others–or is the value of our lives the same regardless of those who abuse it?
Even if "the sanctity of marriage" has been damaged by those who abuse it, why then should we allow further damage be done to it? Saying that we should allow gay marriage because we allow divorce is the equivalent to saying, "Well, Jimmy broke all the windows, so we might as well let Billy burn the house down." Using that logic, we **all** end up homeless.
My point is it's easy to criticize people for whining about inequality if you personally haven't suffered from it. I'm not trying to say you're an oppressor of rights, but just try to understand what other people have to go through.
Love isn't the issue. The law is. The law allows anyone to marry anyone of the opposite sex. the law makes no mention of love. The law has no care for love.
Under your argument, then if a man loves a sheep then he is being discriminated against because he can't marry that sheep. Or if a pedophile loves a child he should be able to marry that child. If it should be about love, then why not let them marry? Because marriage isn't about love. The institution of Marriage is a religious institution that binds together a man and woman. The modern Idea of marriage for love is just that, modern. Throughout history marriages were made for political or economic reasons, not for love. I'm not saying love isn't important, but I am saying that Love is not a prerequisite for marriage. In fact, arranged marriages, which aren't based on love, have a much lower divorce rate.
Ok I'm tired of posting the same thing to multiple people, so I'm just going to sum it all up:
Gay marriage doesn't negative affect heterosexual marriage, so I don't see the problem in just letting them marry. I mean, who cares? Let them marry and be happy. I don't know why we are denying their recognition of love. You can get married, they can get married, everyone is happy. Proposition 8 should be recognized. But that does't mean that people still shouldn't speak out against it. It's injustice. We will have a difficult time explaining to our grandchildren why this was such a big deal. There's really no justification for oppressing rights when they don't impede on anyone else's rights. Again I pose the question: for all those against gay marriage, will you be in favor of banning divorce? It goes against the sancitity of marriage and destroyes the traditional family. Why should divorce be legal and gay marriage not, if they both supposedly have the same negative consequences?
"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." -Martin Luther King Jr.
Sheep can't sign marriage licenses. Young boys don't have the legal authority to enter into marriage until they're 18. That's consistent with legal rights across the board (the whole you have to be 18 to independently make government-related decisions thing). And who cares what marriage was about in the past. For some it's arranged, and I have no problem with arranged marriages. But many people marry for love, so why should only heterosexual couples be afforded this right?
Your first thought is exactly the problem – A White Heterosexual Male could not POSSIBLY understand inequality or oppression. And if your point is to be considered then no one in this country should complain about a thing considering what's going on aorund the world. Right now people are the victims of genocide – and we need to be concerned about P Diddy and the scars of slavery he lives with? Or Ellen Degeneres not being able to "Officially Marry" Portia?
And yet based on my sexual orientation and skin pigment – my thoughts are disregarded as unknowing…..sad man. Sad. It's just simply gotten out of hand – ALL AROUND.
The thought processes are backwards.
This is known as "Jamming", one of the three main tactics of Marshall K. Kirk and Hunter Madsen's "After the Ball- How America will conquer its fear and hatred of Gays in the 90s." – Penguin Books, 1989. The idea is to make an emotional equivalence in one's mind between racism and opposition to homosexuality, and in so doing, generating a negative reaction to the opposition to homosexuality similar to that which we associate with racism.
You can read about "Desensitization", "Jamming", and "Conversion" here:
http://www.article8.org/docs/gay_strategies/after...
Don't even start the abortion debate. That's for another time. And what's wrong with polygamy, I'm all for its legalization. You need to be 18 to independently sign off on any governmental paper that's across the board, not just marriage (voting, military, etc). And chimps can't sign legal contracts. I have no problem with non-sexual relationships with animals (they can't consent to sex, hence why I believe the relationships should be non-sexual). Hey, it's not for me, but the only people I'm not accepting of are those who aren't accepting of others.
Ok I'm tired of posting the same thing to multiple people, so I'm just going to sum it all up:
It's all about acceptance and recognizing love. Gay marriage doesn't negative affect heterosexual marriage, so I don't see the problem in just letting them marry. I mean, who cares? Let them marry and be happy. I don't know why we are denying their recognition of love. You can get married, they can get married, everyone is happy. Proposition 8 should be recognized. But that does't mean that people still shouldn't speak out against it. It's injustice. We will have a difficult time explaining to our grandchildren why this was such a big deal. There's really no justification for oppressing rights when they don't impede on anyone else's rights. Again I pose the question: for all those against gay marriage, will you be in favor of banning divorce? It goes against the sancitity of marriage and destroyes the traditional family. Why should divorce be legal and gay marriage not, if they both supposedly have the same negative consequences?
"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." -Martin Luther King Jr.
The fact that you have to go back 2,500 years to try to make your non sequitur shows just how weak your argument is.
Regardless of whether or not **any** of King Solomon's wives were sacred doesn't change the fact that homosexuality never will be sacred.
Another issue regarding Love is that of Love itself. How many marriages fail because people think they 'love' some one but in reality its just lust? How many gay relationships are like that?
I think the Bible best describes love.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Are those who violently fought Prop 8 have shown neither Patience no kindness. I see nothing but pride in the preaching of Senn Penn or Tom Hanks. The movement is nothing but self-seeking, and the protests show that they are all to easily angered. As for keeping a record of wrongs, thats a big part of the movement. I do not see much of love in the movement, but see much more of those who wish to force us to accept their lifestyle.
More "jamming".
The abortion debate is for another topic. I see nothing wrong with polygamy, and would have no objections to its legalization. You need to be 18 to sign any government-related paper independently (voting, military draft, etc). That rule is consistent across the board. Chimps can't sign legal contracts, and there's no way to determine if it's consentual.
Aww Doug — don't hold back, tell us how you REALLY feel!!
ha hah…damn, guy, I thought i was 'incendiary'. ha! but i'm with ya, brother. It's only Prop 8 that keeps me from marrying my HD Big Screen.
And last but not least. Sexual preference is not the same as skin color. One cannot choose the color of their skin, but they can chose how to live their life. They decide what urges to act upon. Just like the man who is attracted to sheep, the man that is attracted to another man must decide if they are going to act upon that urge. Thus it is a choice.
More "jamming", and more "you let Billy do **X**, so you have to let me do **Y**" argumentation.
Once you see the tactics for what they are, they're pretty easy to diffuse. All you have to remember is this: I am under no obligation to let someone else dictate how I feel about anything. I decide for myself.
I cannot argue with that.
That's funny. My mother actually lived through segregation and doesn't feel any kinship to gay activists at all.
After observing "No to 8" protesters, My mother wondered why gay activists waste so much money promoting their deviant lifestyle. She thought the activists would be better off using those funds to feed starving African children.
That's another thing that annoys many Black people about White gay activists. These activists have an arrogant, even racist belief that they know more about being Black than actual Black people. So, the activists are shocked when the average Black person doesn't buy their "civil rights = gay rights" myths.
I want to marry my dog. That's my pursuit of happiness.
Martin Luther King also declared that the breakdown of the traditional family would be as great a threat to Black people as segregation. Read more in King's sermon "Some Things We Must Do":
http://www.stanford.edu/group/King/publications/p...
King was proven correct as liberal concepts like "free love," welfare, and unchecked abortion have wreaked havoc on the Black family.
So, King would view legalizing gay marriage as a foolish, even dangerous idea that would add to Black America's woes. This would be especially tragic since efforts by Black people to rebuild the family are beginning to pay off:
http://www.essence.com/news_entertainment/news/ar...
Isn't that legal in Vermont?
I love my horse.
i am confused. isn't hollywood full of homosexuals that should have, could have played the milk role???
by casting penn, isn't hollywood being GAYCIST ??
just wondering…
Gay activists definitely sound like Klansmen, who yelled "We're the victims" as they terrorized and lynched Black people during the Jim Crow days.
Yes.
I cannot imagine how people could sit aside and allow segregation to occur, and my children and grandchildren will wonder why homosexuals were not granted equal rights.
I don't know you, so I'll try to cut you some slack, but this statement just reeks of hyperbole and a complete lack of understanding of the word context (not to mention quite possibly being racist in the level of insult to the black race). Segregation included such things as people not being allowed to live in certain areas, work in certain businesses, eat in restaurants (at least not the white sections), ride in the front of public transportation, mistreatment by the police and legal system, different (inferior) schools, and unequal coverage from the press.
Could you name me any of those that has routinely happened to gay people?
You can make your case without saying ridiculous things and basically insulting everyone's intelligence (including the black race, who I should reiterate ACTUALLY ENDURED SEGREGATION). You should be embarrassed.
I cannot imagine how people could sit aside and allow segregation to occur, and my children and grandchildren will wonder why homosexuals were not granted equal rights.
Bryan, I don't know you, so I'll try to cut you some slack, but this statement just reeks of hyperbole and a complete lack of understanding of the word context (not to mention quite possibly being racist in the level of insult to the black race). Segregation included such things as people not being allowed to live in certain areas, work in certain businesses, eat in restaurants (at least not the white sections), ride in the front of public transportation, mistreatment by the police and legal system, different (inferior) schools, and unequal coverage from the press.
Could you name me any of those that has routinely happened to gay people?
You can make your case without saying ridiculous things and basically insulting everyone's intelligence (including the black race, who I should reiterate ACTUALLY ENDURED SEGREGATION). You should be embarrassed.
That is not true. The left likes love. The left thinks people who love each other should be allowed to if they are consenting adults. The right thinks the left hates because the left merely thinks lovers like Karl Rove and Rush Limbaugh should feel free to be gay. Obviously, Karl and Rush don't want to reveal their secret relationship because they make their money by appealing to people who don't like gays, many of whom are in the closet gay. But that isn't hatred by the left. It cold be subversive to expose gay conservatives hiding in the closet, but some people would say it patriotic because it is self-loathing homosexuals like Karl Rove and Rush Limbaugh who are most likely to trash the Constitution.
Again, you can't compare skin tone to sexual preference. One doesn't make a choice regarding the tone of their skin. One does, however, make a choice regarding who they do and do not sleep with and which urges they act upon.
Sorry, not enough face time for people like Penn. He'll stick to flying to Venezuela.
Oh yeah, that'll work. Tell the MILLIONS of heterosexual people aiming to enter into non-religious (i.e. justice of the peace etc) marriages that you're going to take the right away from THEM, too, in order to make absolutely certain that the gays never get it.
I say go for it, kids. I mean, there's NO chance in hell that this would, say, infuriate people and increase the opposition to your side a hundredfold or anything. Sounds like a plan
For me, the main problem isn't that we're REdefining marriage, it's that we're UNdefining marriage. For thousands of years marriage has been between a man and one (or more) women. I don't think it's ever been between a man and one (or more) men. Now the push is to undefine it so that it isn't between the sexes, but includes between the sexes and among the sexes. In American culture it's always been between one man and one woman (forget territorial Utah – that was considered aberrant and they had to specifically outlaw it to become part of the nation) and now some folks want to say, "it's not that anymore." And if it isn't that, then what is it? You can claim that it's just between two consenting adults, but why? If it isn't one man and one woman, why not between one man and two woman or between three men? Once we open the door, it really is a slippery slope and the very same arguments that are being made today about gay marriage can be made about multiple partner marriages. And then Sean Penn can make another movie about the first legal marriage in the U.S. between a man and his two husbands…..
Again, The law isn't about love. Straights and gays have the same right, to marry people of the opposite sex.
As for the rest, I'm sure the men that love sheep would tell you that you're denying their right to marry the thing they love. And the same for pedophiles. And the legal age for people to marry varies from state to state. They make the exact same arguments as the gay marriage movement. Why should gays get special treatment and not them?
Obviously America cares about what it meant in the past, that's why traditional marriage is continually upheld across the country, even in California, one of the most liberal states. Its not a matter of Hate, its a matter of everyone being treated the same under the law.
Very true.
Even gay activist Peter Tatchell scoffed at the notion of a "gay gene". He went into more detail in his column, "Homosexuality: it isn't natural":
http://www.citizenlink.org/turnsignal/A000007949….
AMEN to that! It doesn't matter what well reasoned responses I give to them as to why I do not want the definition of marriage changed. But instead of engaging the reasons I give, they dismiss them and continue to say it's because of hatred – as though somehow they know my innermost thoughts, my motivations, and my heart better than I do!
Harley, please don't tell me you're one of those Plame conspiracy folks? Coming on the heels of your Harley-Jane Kozak close encounter, I don't know if I could cope.
Seriously, we love Fitzgerald here, he's done more to clean up Chicago than Elliot Ness did, but we know the guy who leaked her name, and he was never charged with anything. Quite possibly the biggest Liberal flap over nothing in history (I'm literally straining to think of anything else that stupid to achieve national attention). Valerie Plame needs a story? Maybe Fox will buy the rights and title it, "I got my husband a sweet gig, a moron told the press and I only made $2.5 million out of it…..How will I ever recover?"
No one ever asks this, so allow me…
Let's just say that "social conservatives" are RIGHT and that widespread acceptance and/or "normalization" of homosexuality (which, yes, is at the end of the day is what this is all about) will lead to the collapse of traditional morality and possibly the traditional family structure – that we'll end up swapping-out monogamy for a general consensus of "anything (between consenting adults) goes" polyamorous free-for-all… America as The Shining Playboy Mansion on The Hill.
Let's just imagine that this IS the innevitable long-term "consequence" of Gay Marriage. Now, with that image firmly establish in all of our heads… could someone tell me why, exactly, this would be a BAD thing? Cuz… I'm not really seein' it, to be honest. Flip phrasing, yes, but serious question. Anyone? Anyone got an answer for me?
I'm assuming you're joking in saying you cannot comprehend why this scenario would be bad for society.
Because if you are serious, then you are more far gone than anyone here can really help you with.
But Doug, liberals are open minded. They can't possibly be more dogmatic than us. They preach to us because they care. And because they're open minded.
That's why so many of them forego their fortunes to live next to the poor people they fight for, or lead by example to save the planet, or emphasize the good things America does for the world. It's because they care. And because they love their country despite how uncool or un-edgy that might seem.
Liberals are awesome.
Of course religion is also a choice. So by that logic, government laws against marrying across religions would be OK because someone could always convert.
Not really. They can tell anyone they want that they are married. They are their own church. Your church can decide they aren't married. I doubt they will care.
And that's the rub. Without the government to back them up, churches would have to face up to the notion that only their own members would care about their special marriage rules.
Marriage is a religious union that precedes the United States of America. For those that believe in the Bible, it started with Adam and Eve. So why are homosexuals so set on usurping the word "marriage" when it offends so many? I would be happy to get government out of the "marriage" business and leave it to churches to define what a marriage is in context of their own doctrine and community. I am a happily married Christian and would have found it reasonable to get a civil union license recognized by the state before getting married in my church. I have no interest or desire to stop my homosexual friends from doing the same, but I am growing weary of the accusations of hate and bigotry for having this reasonable opinion. Rather than push the homosexual agenda forward, I believe we have pushed it way back–even decades. As with most political factions of today, we need more moderate homosexual voices to extend a hand of friendship to the majority of reasonable people on this issue.
That's the nice thing about viewing the government's role as enforcement of contract — chimps can't contract and neither can 10-yr-olds. If 10 adult women want to marry you — well, my hat's off to you and I will be honored to buy you a drink.
I supported the Supreme Court's recent action overturning gun-banning legislation that was legally enacted by the Congress. I suspect many conservatives joined me in that support. Are you saying you oppose court cases that overturn laws that infringe on individual rights and equal treatment under the law?
I utterly agree. Let the state enforce civil contracts between adults that pledge them to mutual support and the care of minor children, and let the churches and other voluntary communities use the word "marriage" to mean whatever it means to them.
Ship it.
I'll concede one point to you, Bryan. It is hard to defend the "sanctity of marriage" as the divorce rate soars above 50%.
The intellectually consistent conservative view of gay marriage is that it should be left as a states' rights issue and resolved by legislation, not by the federal appellate courts.
Hence, Proposition 8. That went well…
People (such as Sean Penn) who want to use the court system to overturn legislation which was legally enacted by a popular vote, want to live someplace other than a democracy. That is really not OK with me. Well, it is as long as they're willing to move there…
I didn't ask if it'd be bad for society… I don't give a damn one way or the other about "society." Or "community." Or "the greater good" or any other such malarkey. If a more chaotic society is the worst you can predict, then I'm still not onboard – a healthy degree of chaos is natural and healthy for us. It prevents contentment from breeding corruption and compromise, and it helps Natural Selection do it's job.
" The thing is, I can't quite advocate for it because of the stress it puts on society. I think we need ten or twenty years to get used to civil unions, at which time the debate could be handled with far less acrimony."
We've tried this before. It was a good long time in between the effective end of Slavery in the north and outright Abolition nationwide, and all that time to ruminate and meditate didn't do anything to avoid having to fight a Civil War over it. We're talking about a MASSIVE cultural paradigm-shift here. It's going to be big, it's going to be bloody, and it WON'T be a compromise: One side will DESTROY the other. And if the good guys win, it's going to be the biggest blow to the relevance of traditionalist superstition to the modern world since Darwin first gazed on the Galapagos.
You fail to recognize that not everyone agrees with your definition of marriage. I would start with that before I went around "feel[ing] sorry" for others.
Exactly, El Gordo, how can the Penn-loving H'wood liberals love him so much when he goes and plays kissy face with Dictators who either kill or imprison gays in their own countries? That is the ultimate disconnect for me. Praise a gay-murdering Dictator and then go back and play a gay hero. Which Harvey Milk most definately wasn't. He encouraged gay sex in bathhouses with multiple partners using no protection for himself and his followers. This was before people knew how deadly this was. He was a selfish, vain man, who purposely stirred people up just to be antagonistic. He purposely flaunted his homosexuality in the faces of Christian people and conservative people, just to make them uncomfortable. Along with the mayor of California, he was a big supporter of Jim Jones, helped him recruit cult members, by hooking them up with Jones when they were down on their luck. So for anyone to say he was some great patriot, is patently false, You may want to make him out to be so, enjoyed the fakey H'wood story in the movie or some revisionist story, but people who actually lived through that time and knew him, say differently.
Also, Mr. People's Rights Penn sure didn't care and wasn't compassionate when he was beating the crap out of Madonna. People want to vilify and have Chris Brown arrested for his abuse of Rhinna, what is the difference? How come it was excused so easily when Penn did it? We were told he was "temperamental" and a "hot head." As someone who was an abused wife, that is total horse crap, he is a bully. He has some sort of inferiority complex, and is a total jackass. His comments last nite were classless, and detracted yet another point, from the useless as tits on a boar hog group of idiots who preened and indulged in gratuitous back patting to booster themselves all the while disgusting the flyover country folks. What a massive disconnect.
So which of King Solomon's nearly 700 wives was the most "sacred"?
Which of King Solomon's wives was recognized by the US Government?
OK, I'll sum it up too. Marriage doesn't necessarily make people happy, so why do gays wish to overturn 10,000 years of historical precedent and force people to change the definition, just to suit them?
Well, that says it all. Someone who "doesn't give a damn one way or the other about society" is not someone whose opinion I have any interest in hearing. Why? Because they are not serious. Or if they are serious, they have no business voting for such important matters since they care neither about themselves, their family or the people around them.
Goodbye.
That already exists. It's called the ghettos. I can take you into a neighborhood in Chicago where any night of the week you can find a 14 year-old girl walking the streets to make enough money to pay her drug habit. If the outcome is what you suggest, than yes, I'd be completely against it.
Personally I don't think that would be the outcome, which is why I'm not against gay marriage. The thing is, I can't quite advocate for it because of the stress it puts on society. I think we need ten or twenty years to get used to civil unions, at which time the debate could be handled with far less acrimony. I can't imagine any scenario where by the time my daughter has her own children, it isn't the law of the land.
But Civil Rights was settled in the Legislature by amending the Constitution. It's not the court's job, or even their right to create new laws. If the legislature wanted to enact Prop 8, they could. It's not like they ask the constituents' position on anything else.
What inequality?
The fallacy of your argument is that homosexuals are not banned from marriage; actually the fact is, homosexuals have married since the dawn of marriage, have had children, divorced, remarried etc. etc. etc.
Further, if I so choose I am able to have a diverse sex life with gay, straight, bi, tri or vibrator however skin color is not choice so please stop comparing sexual behavior with the Civil Rights struggle.
Lastly, MLK was a Republican because he knew the Dixiecrat Dems were the slavemasters of
the '40 acres and a mule' plantation and the KKK were the strong arm of the slavemaster's law.
Children are not always "under age." What if a man (age 53) wants to marry his daughter (age 30)? What if a brother (30) wants to marry his sister (age 29) These people are all of consenting age. Should they be allowed to marry legally?
I'm sure you couldn't care less about the answer. You threw your little grenade and you smuggly pumped your fist and gave a little 'Yeah, Take that hypocrites'.
The book that you are referencing mentions Solomon as a man of uncommon wisdom. A man who used that wisdom to bring peace and prosperity to his people. It also records a warning to him against vanity and of taking many wives as he did. Despite his wisdom, his wives turned him from the service of his God and his life ended, not in a celebration of his Godly wisdom, but in a demonstration of the damage vanity causes, something he had so eloquently explained earlier in life before he disobeyed and took on those 700 wives (I'm surprised you didn't mention the concubines as well).
If you would like to discuss Hebrew polygamy, the Mosaic Laws proscriptions or the restatement of the 'one man, one woman' standard by Jesus (referring to God's original purpose) that's fine. But you really don't, do you?
I recently heard that Hollywood is talking about a combo movie called "LeChe". It would involve a dual performance by Penn and Benicio Del Toro in the story of a beloved gay military man helping his social agenda president combat the evil militant right activists. Its a definite winner for all the major awards.
Should be Mosaic Law's. Sorry. Typing too fast!
Same sex couples can have their ceremonies and enter into legal agreements. What they want is for those of us who do not agree with their lifestyle to be bullied and shamed into accepting it.
Actually, that is not correct. For example, in Virginia it is illegal for corporations to provide employee medical insurance to the unmarried domestic partners of employees unless (this is cute) the company is large enough to self-insure. This keeps large corporations like Microsoft (which has domestic partner benefits) from moving facilities out of state while still legally punishing gays who work for smaller companies.
People always insult others on the interwebz by calling them basement-dwelling, pimple-faced post-adolescent losers living with their parents. It's getting pretty silly.
That being said, only someone living in their parent's basement would make a statement like this.
You either don't have anyone you really care about other than yourself. You certainly don't have children, or have been regularly exposed to them. Or if you do, you are unfit.
Or you're just using a personal fantasy to try and make a controversial point that you think establishes you as a maverick and an intellectual. I'm goin' with this one!
BTW Bob, I remember you from DHP and I think Libertas too. You actually make some good points when you're not trying to shock and awe everyone with your 'out of the box' philosophical gymnastics routine.
Only if he is in a wheelchair since Vietnam. I mean, Iraq. And in the moving finale, the federal government takes over healthcare and makes him walk again, using a special cocktail of Honest Tea and fetal tissue.
"If we do the work that we can do in this country, the work that we will do when John Kerry is president, people like Christopher Reeve are going to walk, get up out of that wheelchair and walk again."
(John Edwards, 2004)
There have been many hate crimes. Many.
I have had this discussion with my son on several occasions and have yet to fully understand. OK, so I am an old guy. What is the difference between "Marriage" and "Civil Union"? As I understand, and I may be wrong, Civil Unions are legal in California, but marriage is currently defined as being between a man and a woman. So, if same sex partners can be united under the "Civil Union" banner, what is the push to have the banner of "Marriage"?
No, such a law would be unconstitutional. The Constitution protects freedom of Religion but no freedom of Sexual Choice.
Thus why we don't have laws banning fundamentalist Muslims from being allowed to practice their religion. And its also why, despite the best efforts of men such as Bill Maher, and women such as Rosie O'Donnel we still have Christianity.
I am glad you bring this up, because CA is the perfect example to illustrate the point that this is not about equal rights. If my understanding is correct, CA law has civil unions and marriage being the same as far as rights and benefits, only the title is different. (Is that correct? If not, please let me know.)
But whether in practice right now or just in theory, if these two things are exactly the same except for the title, then why keep pushing for that title?
This is not about equal rights. It is about homosexuals getting society to accept their lifestyle. And for those of us who don't, they will bully and scream and threaten and desecrate churches.
So where is that tolerance they so love to shriek about? I saw none in Sean Penn's speech the other night, just like I see none from those homosexuals who continue trying to force their views upon me, by law.
Yes. I'm just pointing out that we do not base requirements for equal legal protection solely on characteristics you have absolutely no choice over.
Oh really? You're accepting of rapists? Robbers? Wall Street crooks? Terrorists? Liars? Thieves? I suspect there's a whole lot of pedophiles who are "accepting of others" – and that's the problem, isn't it.
I voted for gay marriage. Why should they get out of the misery of being married? I'm a flippin' Libertarian for god's sake.
And what's this with "er, you need to be 18" blah blah blah, "chimps can't sign legal contracts" blah blah blah. You're talking about changing law. Those can be changed too.
I'll bet you didn't know that heterosexual marriage wasn't guaranteed under the constitution, that it is not recognised by the constitution and most likely shouldn't be recognised by the constitution, because the more you legalize something the more the government can dictate terms–or haven't you been paying attention to the furor over the bailout? Can you please read these documents that you choose to quote and stretch your mind a little further? And you dropped that snarky little gauntlet " America love it or leave it" I was responding in kind. Be well, be blessed, seek Jesus because he is coming soon and you need him.
So this really has nothing to do with Gay Rights, Same-sex marriage or the like. This to you is just a way to spit in the eye of religion. Nice.
As to your question above about what would be so bad, reference Sodom and Gomorrah.
Love!
I mean, that Gaycist argument has a lot of mileage. I've had to cast my own cartoon shows based on race. If we're equating sexual orientation to race then shouldn't gay roles only be played those people? Further, if being conservative is a mental handicap shouldn't every depiction of Republicans on screen be played by Republican actors? This could bode well for my people.
"You either don't have anyone you really care about other than yourself. You certainly don't have children, or have been regularly exposed to them. Or if you do, you are unfit."
I have many people I care about. What I do NOT care about is propping up institutions or ideals for the sake of some theoretical, quasi-socialistic "greater good" at the expense of the freedom and self-fulfillment of The Individual.
Thanks for showing your hatred and intolerance of those who do not think like you.
And for showing that the same-sex marriage movement has nothing whatsoever to do with "equal rights". It's all to do with shoving your worldview and your morality down the throats of those of us who disagree – and by violence, if needed.
We will not stand for your bullying. Do you hear me? We will not.
I agree. I belive that all of this vile is over one word in order to gain acceptance not equality. It is about the fact that not all people have the same opinion about any subject and in most cases, that is alright.
For me, I could care less what these Hollywood morons think. What gets me is their arrogance to believe that they are right and everyone else who has a different opinion is uncool and ignorant. They are the exact definition of what they profess to despise.
I would be more comfortable if everyone just admitted that openly. Constantly referring to this as a civil rights issue is misleading because it plays on the emotions. It's not about rights. It's about homosexuals wanting their relationships accepted by those of us who do not agree.
And instead of dealing with it the way a civilized society deals with problematic issues, by voting and legislation (which is exactly what Prop. 8 was) they resort to berating (like Sean Penn), bullying, threatening, riots and violence.
"So this really has nothing to do with Gay Rights, Same-sex marriage or the like. This to you is just a way to spit in the eye of religion. Nice."
I prefer to think of it as the possibility of a rare opportunity to help others AND get a personal bonus from it without having to negate either one: A large number of individuals who've had their pursuit of happiness and self-fulfillment blunted by the outdated application of archaic "moral" codes will have justice, and I potentially get a world that's much, much, MUCH more fun to hang out in. Everybody wins
A ban on marrying across religions? I've never heard of that one, although I have heard of Christians marrying Jews, Christians marrying Atheists, and even Baptists marrying Methodists. That last one is rare, but it does happen. I haven't heard of Muslims marrying outside of Islam, but then that's probably a personal safety issue.
When I was in Cuba seven years ago, I saw a "sanitarium" for the HIV infected, actually an interment camp surrounded by a high wire fence. It wasn´t the only ugly thing I saw. I am sure there are some gay people who agree that Castro-supporter Penn has no business talking about anyone´s rights. Sexual orientation does not force you to abdicate moral or intellectual honesty.
Ignorant, arrogant AND militant. The perfect storm. You think nothing that came before you matters. Not very wise. You did not earn the wealth and freedom that you enjoy. None of us did. We are privileged. Maybe some day you will learn that it is purely in your self-interest to protect this unique and wonderful society. But probably not. You would break something you don´t understand. Historically, there is a name for people like that.
Ignorant, arrogant AND militant. The perfect storm. You think nothing that came before you matters. Not very wise. You did not earn the wealth and freedom that you enjoy. None of us did. You are privileged. Maybe some day you will learn that it is purely in your self-interest to protect this unique and wonderful society. But probably not. You would break something you don´t understand. Historically, there is a name for people like that.
I think the comment group at Big Hollywood are the funniest, wittiest, smartest on the net. I'm learning and laughing along the way.
Plenty that came "before me" matters. However, I'm fairly certain that no dictionary defines "matters" as "permanent and should never be changed." Morality is like any other man-made thing: Good until it isn't anymore, or until we realize that it can be improved and/or replaced. We ought to examine our mores and taboos from time to time and see what's really "working" and what isn't.
True, but the laws on marriage are the same for most people with in the US, men can only marry women, and women can only marry men. We all have the same rights, why should a certain group get special rights? If we allow gay marriage, why not allow human/animal marriage? The people that like animals would say that their rights are being infringed upon because they can't marry who they want.
Then why not fight to change that law instead of forcing us to change the definition of something that has stood as is for the last six thousand years? As a Christian I am opposed to gay marriage. Marriage is a religious institution at its base. The true end goal of the gay marriage crusade is, as Mo pointed out, to force us to accept their lifestyle and celebrate it. I will not celebrate the lifestyle, nor will I aprove of any atempt to force me to accept that their lifestyle is is right.
However, I understand that I, as a Christian, am to love my neighbor, so I'm against denying equal rights to homosexuals. They have equal rights, they can marry the same as anyone else. I would have no problem if they want to overturn laws such as the one you describe, Fritz, but thats not what's being argued.
West's Razor: The opinions of White Heterosexual Males are deemed irrelevent because it is assumed that they have benefited from being in the above majorities.
Just one of my many pearls of wisdom. The statement Bryan made is a logical Fallacy, in fact, its multiple logical fallacies wrapped up in one giant ball of fractal wrongness. Here is a brief list:
#1 Ad Hominem: He attacks those who oppose his view instead of offering any sort of proof against the view.
#2 Base Assertion Fallacy: This is when a premise is assumed true when it isn't. it plays like this:
A. Only minority members can understand struggle.
B. You are not a minority member.
C Therefore you cannot understand struggle.
#3 Fallacy of Necessity: Placing too much necessity upon one premise
A.Only those who have struggled understand struggle.
B. Minorities have struggled.
C. Therefore You do not understand struggle because you are not a minority.
#4 Appeal to Authority: By saying we can't understand because we aren't minorities is like saying "Global warming is true because most scientists think it's true."
See, four years at a public university has been good for something.
Thats okay, I'm just ecastatic reading some grade A biblical scholarship. Kudos to you.
Also, Attmay should read Ecclesiastes to see where such things as Solomon's 700 wives lead to. "This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind."
Okay. Lets play under your reasoning. "Good until it isn't anymore" Okay, this pesky notion of tolerence isn't good for me anymore, I think I'll go lynch some one. And these laws against theft, they're not good anymore, I'm bigger and stronger then most people, I should be able to take form them what I want, its only Darwinism at its finest. Oh, and rape, being an alpha male, it should be my duty to impregnate as many women as possible to pass on my genetic material. And murder, If morals are nebulous and changeable as you suggest, and Darwinism is the rule of the Day, then I should be able to eliminate those who could possibly breed besides me to ensure that only my genes are carried on.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
Good thing i'm a conservative and have no imagination or that mental image would have made me projectile vomit.
""If we do the work that we can do in this country, the work that we will do when John Kerry is president, people like Christopher Reeve are going to walk, get up out of that wheelchair and walk again."
(John Edwards, 2004)"
Said after Superman had already gone on to the big Fortress of Solitude in the sky.
I like this train of thought. Maybe they've been doing this all along, didn't Leo Decaprio once play a retard? and didn't Senn Penn? IT EXPLAINS EVERYTHING!!!!!!
I apologize in advance to any mentally disabled person or family of a disabled person reading this, I understand the Mentally disabled are all around more capable then DeCaprio and Penn.
"Thanks for showing your hatred and intolerance of those who do not think like you."
That's nothin', you should see my hatred and intolerance for people who DO think me
You realize that that wasn't a "royal" We in "We ought to examine our mores and taboos from time to time and see what's really "working" and what isn't;" right?
I guess Milk wasn´t a saint – he certainly did not deserve to be murdered – either way, Penn is a vile bastard for sucking up to thugs like Chavez and Castro. But then he is a small time thug himself.
Every law is the imposition of the will of some over the rights of others… a necessity for any orderly society. Those against Prop 8 need to get over it and move on. Penn looked natural with a bagel tucked in his shorts. When he talks politics it reminds me of a Fozzy Bear dissertation on relativity.
Too bad I cannot reply to this post, since this sentence makes no grammatical sense whatsoever.
LOL! That's good stuff. I am just sick of everyone thinking they're the only victims…..many people have experienced struggle and worked through it without all the whining.
I'm Croatian and I feel that me and my family have felt and seen things that most Americans can't comprehend – but that doesn't mean I am due any special consideration – all I do is work hard, get past it, and prosper.
I do have to say that the only Americans I have sympathy for are Native Americans in general. Other than that – get over yourselves.
Yeah, you're right. We need to get rid of those archaic "moral" codes: Do not murder, do not steal, do not lie, honor your father and mother, love your neighbor, help the poor and oppressed, minister to those in prison, avoid drunkenness, gluttony, sexual immorality.
Thankfully, I am blessed in that I cannot envision a world missing these "blunts" to your "help", "fun" and "justice".
Jonah,
When I was discussing Prop 8 with my son, the one argument that he made that stumped me came right out of the Civil Rights Movement. Seperate but Equal.
History suggests there´s no going back whether it works or not. What else can someone with a conservative temperament say? Possibly you will get gay marriage so that you have to look for another progressive cause. You will be old one day, you will look at the world you helped to create. You will grunt "people are crap" and "screw society" because that hubris and self-pity may not go away no matter what. Then you will die and everybody else will be left holding the bag. Hey, if it works for you…
I understood it wasn't a 'royal' we. That's why i said those social mores I mentioned weren't good for ME anymore. I'm just taking your train of thought to its logical conclusion. If morals can change with the times then they aren't absolute. If they aren't absolute then they can be whatever they are determined to be, or there can be none at all. Morals are unchanging and fixed or they are meaningless. Murder is wrong all the time, or if its not a fixed wrong, then it CAN be right some times, or maybe soceity should reach the point where its always right.
Good point, if we're going to talk about suffering, then Jews and those who have lived under Communist governments have suffered far more then anyone else living today. Gays in America haven't suffered by comparison, they have all the same rights as every other American.
But they aren't separate, and they are already equal. No one forces gays to go to different schools, no one forces them to use separate wash rooms. Everyone has equal rights, but those who push issues like this do not want equality, they want special treatment, or to force those that don't agree with them to accept something they don't agree with.
It's amazing to me how many homosexuals or those who support the homosexual lifestyle absolutely refuse to acknowledge that there are many, many people who once were homosexual and now are not. (Which, as you said, shows that it is a choice, unlike skin color/race.)
It's like those people do not even exist.
"If morals can change with the times then they aren't absolute."
What's with the "can?" We KNOW by matter of historical record that they change and aren't absolute. 200 years ago it was MORALLY SOUND to own a slave in our society, also in others and not so in still more; AND it had come and gone back and forth in thousands of civilizations in the past. It was, to the Mayans, morally hunky-dory to sacrifice humans to the Sun. It's morally "cool" in too much of the Muslim world to behead your wife for wearing lipstick – but once upon a time the Middle East was a place of decadence and oppulence…
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…Heck, take a modern example: Right now, it is considered morally WRONG to have sex with children. Now, you and I would both agree that this particular moral code is correct. However, a student of history will tell you that correct or not it's a relatively recent (in terms of human history) invention. For CENTURIES what we would (correctly, I reiterate) would call child-rape was simply called "something to do on a Friday," but we've reexamined that thinking and found it to be incorrect. Likewise, for CENTURIES homosexuality was abhorent and gay marriage was likewise – upon examining it today, I find no logical reason why this should be the case.
Appologies. There ought've been a "like" between "think" and "me"
No, It was socially acceptable 200 years ago to own a slave, it wasn't moral. You're confusing things that a society accepts as Morals. they are different things.
Moral, Adj: of, pertaining to, or concerned with the principles or rules of right conduct or the distinction between right and wrong; ethical
Societal norms are different things. Just because a society accepts something doesn't make it right. Under your theory, the rightness or wrongness of things changes with time, it does not. Slavery is and has always been wrong, but some societies have accepted it. Do you remember in high school how there was always a teacher with a poster that said "What is right is not always popular, and what is popular is not always right." That's what you're not understanding about Morals. What is moral isn't always popular, and what is popular isn't always moral.
I realize this is about to get very "tree falls in the woods," but…
You draw a distinction between morality and socially-acceptable behavior. Okay. But, then, if not from the civilization that surrounds it, WHERE does this unchanging, permanent thing called morality come from?
One might say God. Okay. To which I reply, "which God?" since humanity has (and continues to have) had millions of those. "The Judeo Christian God" will be the most common response here in the U.S., right? Okay…
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…but that presents a possible conundrum: If the "permanently right" morality flows from this particular God, then what of the societies that were not introduced to him until much later, or those that existed prior to the point when man came to know him. I mean, unless you want to take the pre-flood Old Testament as a 100% reliable timeline, the J/C God has only been known to mankind since sometime during the Sumerian era and from then until Roman times only to a relative handful of us, yes?
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But even leaving aside all THAT, the morality from this God HAS changed with the times: He is perfectly fine with polygamy and slavery at various points in the OT, but today Christianity AND Judaism both regard these practices as immoral.
Now, you can probably answer all of my questions here by grouping OT laws and such in with "societal norms, not morality" also, but in THAT case I ask again: Where does the permanent morality that you speak of COME FROM? Where did you get it? Is it simply "I know it when I see it?"
Actually the constitution protects the freedom of both, no one is getting arrested for either. You are free to practice your religion or sexual prefference.
Exactly. they are already free to do that by the Constitution. The goal of redefining marriage is not about discrimination, its about battling with the Church.
Yes, the Morality comes from the Judeo-Christian God, the only God. And no, his morality hasn't changed. Just because His chosen people did things doesn't mean he approved of them. In fact, if you read the book of Judges, it explains this quite clearly, that people did what ever they wanted and fell away from God. And the Bible also makes it clear that Polygamy isn't good. Each person that was a polygamist has problems because of it, Read the Genesis accounts of the Patriarchs. And as For Solomon, the biggest example of polygamy, all you need to do is read Ecclesiastes. And the same thing with Slavery. Read the books of the Law, there is thing called "Year of the Jubilee" during which all slaves were to be freed. God understood people, over time, do things they shouldn't, so he set provisions to keep them from being institutionalized in the Jewish society.
As for this "what about those that don't know" argument, I have two responses.
First, comes directly from the Bible, Romans 1:18-20 "The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse."
Liberals tend to confuse "rights" with "wants". Our right is to freely work towards happiness, that is the pursuit part, not that the Government has to garuntee our success.
Second, if you study the history of major people groups and mythology, you'll find that each mythology has one thing in common, a Creator God at the beginning. After the Global flood, as the people spread out, Time and Human nature twisted the accounts of the creator God and tales of their ancestors became twisted into tales about 'Gods'. Its called the "Euhemerist Theory" and is one of the major ways that myths are studied in modern academia. It is the same with the Global Flood, If you pick any culture and scratch their history enough you'll find a global flood legend. The Biblical account is the most detailed. So the two most important facts from the pre Babel OT are found in most cultures, you can either assume that they all arose separately and randomly, which is illogical, or that they come from one account that has changed by time telling. Consider the show Mythbusters, most of the myths they test came from some urban legend that, at the heart of it, there is some event that inspired the legend. Its the same principle.
you'll also notice that no where is Happiness deemed an unalienable right, on the persuit of happiness.
"What made you support the definition of marriage being between a man and a woman? Was it…mmm, HATRED?!”
So why do you hate the idea of gay marriage then? I can't imagine it being for intellectual reasons.
"This is not about equal rights. It is about homosexuals getting society to accept their lifestyle"
Equal recognition is an important part of
Civil Union is socially inferior to marriage. If there was a "homosexual" equivalent of marraige then maybe it wouldn't be such an issue(but it'd be silly – not to mention it already gets coined as "Gay Marriage" as opposed to "Marriage for Gays"). You cannot deny this much at least. Why is it that straight couples get to be recognised as "married" and not same sex ones? That's what it boils down to. Why does one religion, or one set of traditions rise above all others?
Gay marriage is basically the same thing as straight marraige. That's why "they" want to drive the point home – only the gender is different.
I could argue it isn't even homophobia, but sexism. Why is a man allowed marry a woman, but not another woman? Actually it IS sexism since a big part of "sexism" is enforcing gender roles.
Also please answer me this; why should people have to show tolerance for an intolerant viewpoint? Personally I do not think I have to be tolerant of everything. If something proves itself to be unfair and harmful, I will not tolerate it. Not everyone in support of gay marriage is a moral relativist.
So not only are you intolerant toward those who hold to a different opinion on same sex marriage than you do, but you are also so arrogant that, without even bothering to even ask, you presume to read someone else's mind and heart and know why they hold that opinion.
Thank you for sharing that on a public forum. It's good that other people can see your intolerance and arrogance.
But this is what you cons ALWAYS do. You take the argument that applies to you(Intolerance) and then reverse it with no care for context.
It's fucking frustrating.
I am intolerant of the vast majority of viewpoints I have encountered "against" gay marriage, yes. This is not because social standards tell me to, or because some mangled interpretation of a Holy Book leads me to believe so. It's because I've been in so many arguments where the same illogic and mean spirited idioms have been blurted out again and again. Not only do I disagree with them, they fail LOGICALLY. That's not just my opinion. Of course it's absolutely possible there is a "Logical" argument against gay marriage, which is why I think it should still be open for debate. It's just so unlikely – and you're coming from a biased viewpoint. You're following both religious and social dogma. You love to throw around your theory that "Liberals" are the same, but you fail to back it. The cult like mentality amongst the posters here is highly evident – and partial evidence for this is that you're so quick to use this extremely stereotypical Conservative Christian reactionary mechanism.
The fact that you can support these supposed "Traditional values" and then call other people intolerant is unbelievable.
I may be "intolerant" of a single viewpoint, but that's okay. I'm sure a lot of people here wouldn't be tolerant of racism, or sexism. There's nothing wrong with not tolerating things that in of themselves set out to be intolerant. The whole point is that you're being intolerant for stupid reasons. Do you really think "Liberals" are advocating we tolerate absolutely everything?
Also, why would I have to read someone's mind? You're not individuals here. You're horrible stereotypes. It's just astounding, Doug's entries check all the boxes for "Right wing fundie loonie". I can't see him deviating in a single major issue. Yes, there are Liberals like that, but I'm not one of your American Liberals to begin with so please don't judge me by that standard. For example, while I'm not against abortion I'm not quite as "Pro Choice" as some people I know. I think as long as it's not scarring for the mother, adoption is a better option. I also think Nuclear Power is a greener solution. There are many notable issues on which I disagree with Liberals – but as for Doug, I don't see how he's anything but a drone. So no, I don't need to read his mind.
This isn't an issue of intolerance. People like you make it so it's impossible to call anyone a "bigot" nowadays. As much as you hate Political Correctness(according to your stereotype), you are the ultimate force of it.
Yes, if you are against Gay Marriage, on law of averages, you probably are a bigot. Doug is a bigot, and if you agree with him you're making an unfair judgement on the entire way in which one type of person loves another type of person, and then call someone else intolerant for calling you out on it. And that's a bad thing.
You don't "disagree" with being gay any more than you disagree with red hair. Homosexuality occurs in nature, this much isn't up for debate. Now if you have particular issues with "the gay lifestyle", then I'd actually agree with you on some counts, as opposed to most liberals – I think they often stereotype themselves just like you do. But you're not coming to that viewpoint through honest reasoning, and you're painting any homosexual with a voice with the same brush.
http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/wed-august-19-2...
As much as the Daily Show can be obnoxious, this hits the nail on the head.
Conservatives are using the same tactics they bitched about Liberals for using in some ways less than a year ago. Only they're much louder and obnoxious.
How can you bitch about finger wagging when even now you're wagging your finger at homosexuals, environmentalists, pagans, and god only knows who else?
Same Church Lady, different gender.
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